Eric & Jen
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After only 3 days of being active on AsianEuro, I received interest from Jen, a girl from China. Her smile piqued my interest, as it showed a wonderful heart inside. We started chatting that evening and haven't stopped. I was amazed - we both shared so many interests and opinions, had very similar pasts and clicked from the first chat. We both share the same desires, the same fears, the same joys, the same outlook on life.
A month later I travelled to China for a work engagement and took the opportunity to meet Jen face-to-face. Within 5 minutes it was clear that we had something special and by the time the bus got into town (under an hour later) I knew that this was the girl I would marry. We knew each other far more than just a month of chatting and telephone calls should indicate.
The very next morning I proposed to her, she accepted and made me the happiest I have ever been. We went into town right away and bought rings for each other. The rest of our time together was simply amazing. Jen could not believe she had found such a wonderful man (her words) and I could not believe that I had found my dream girl. We were so comfortable together, relaxed and happy, and everyone could see it. Even her best friends said we looked like we had been together for years - and we both felt the same. Perhaps we had been lovers in a previous life.
We both feel that fate had a strong hand in bringing us together and joining our hearts as one. She is my best friend, my rock in stormy seas, the light in my life. We had found the true love we both dreamed of.
Since then she has met my sons, my parents and siblings, and I have met hers - once again with the feelings and certainty that we had been together for years. We compliment each other so well, understand each other in a way that I cannot explain - far beyond anything I had felt in my previous relationships even after years of marriage. Truly fate had smiled on us.
This year, on 17 April, we are getting married in China and continuing our life journey together. We are not worried how long it takes to get her Visa, as we both know that we will have the rest of our lives together. If it takes too long, I will move to China to be with her, because a love like this is worth everything. She is my world and I am hers.
We talk every day, on the telephone and online, email each other many times a day and have sent hundreds, if not thousands, of text messages back and forth.
We have a love and a connection that defies explanation, so I won't seek to explain it. When fate brings true love to your life, you know it. It has come to my life and I look forward to a happy, loving life together with my Jen.